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Len Stauffenger
Member since 19th September 2007
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26th April 2008
There are many reasons that people get divorced. It could be there is abuse, lying, they "fell out of love" or my favorite, adultery. If you are reading this then you probably have been cheated on. It may be the main cause of the break up of your marri...
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25th April 2008
I have written several articles for you in which I discuss how important is for you to take time away from your kids just for yourself. I know that because you are divorced, you have learned that you have a much stronger need to rely on the help from fri...
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18th April 2008
When you become a parent, you are privy to a phenomenal blessing - the creation of happy, healthy, and successful children. But you cannot accomplish this unless you yourself are well grounded, because this grounding is what makes your efforts to be ther...
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10th April 2008
Anytime we have disagreements with other people, it is our instinct as human beings to have someone on our "side." When you get divorced or are getting divorced, it is very tempting to talk with friends and family about who was "right" or "wrong" or who ...
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09th April 2008
Divorce can be a time of great challenge. Because of all the emotions it stirs up, it's a lot like a fast stir of vegetable soup: all the veggies come up from the bottom and swirl helter skelter in the broth, round and round the whirlpool you've created...
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07th April 2008
The grieving process after divorce might be painful, but everyone goes through it. After all, your hoped-for and dreamed-of marriage is dead. It is natural to grieve. and once you complete those steps, it might be the time to think of dating again to se...
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04th April 2008
Nobody gets into life without a family. At a minimum, one mom and one dad are requisite. If you got folks who loved and supported you, that's your lot in life. If you got folks who did not love and support you, that's your lot in life. God is not unlov...
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02nd April 2008
There isn't an individual alive today who does not want happiness. But how do you get there from "I'm divorced and I'm not happy?" I know you've got a picture in your mind and I know that you are trying to get that. If that picture looks like Ozzie and...
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01st April 2008
In our modern times, divorce is more common than not although the old sense of blame and letdown still hits the divorcee hard. Pressure from religious organizations, their family, and from their neighbors and friends is still stressful. It hits you hard...
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29th March 2008
You never saw it coming, your divorce. It screamed out of the blue and bashed you about the shoulders. You were astonished that it happened to you despite your very best plans for a wonderful life. Someone's got to pay the price for your distress. Let...
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28th March 2008
Are you content in the thought that your communication with your kids is spot on, or do you worry that you might be missing the mark? If your interface is overwrought with emotion, you might need these tips to gain a more peaceful relationship with your ...
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25th March 2008
Our earliest efforts to handle pain include running from it, avoiding it at any cost, saturating it with alcohol, and numbing it with drugs. None of these work. What does work is wrapping our arms around the pain and just sitting with it. Look at it. Fee...
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19th March 2008
Did you watch your parents learning what you did and what you did not like, formulating a plan for how you would do it when you became a parent? Me too. We knew that our parents were not perfect and we knew we could surely improve on how they did things...
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11th March 2008
The emotions that actors are asked to display at the drop of a hat by his director are a marvel of control and skill and throughly enjoyable to watch and appreciate. I love to see them become mad, loving, playful or crazy knowing the control each of them...
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10th March 2008
You can be rich or you can be poor and each one of you can give your child a free gift that can be of tremendous impact on the way he turns out. That gift is your undivided attention. It will be the mortar in his foundation for stability and steady unfo...
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