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Jack Ito PhD
Member since 24th June 2008
Occupation: Relationship Coach Jack Ito PhD is a licensed psychologist and relationship coach. He is a member of the International Coach Federation and has more than 14 years of clinical experience rescuing failing marriages and teaching relationship skills.
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28th August 2008
You don't need to have any kind of preparation whatsoever in order to find a partner. But, in order to find a great partner, you need to have even more preparation than you would to find a great job. The successes in our life don't happen by accident or w...
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22nd August 2008
If your partner is distant, cold, and rejecting, how could working on the relationship by yourself possibly make a difference? In this real life example from a relationship coach, we can see one way it could.
Many people have either wounds from the pa...
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20th August 2008
Are you tired of starting new relationships, getting emotionally attached, getting hurt, and breaking up? Would you like to find a better way without resigning yourself to staying single?
Despite our best intentions and efforts, things sometimes just ...
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20th August 2008
If you are like many women who seem to experience the same problems with men from relationship to relationship, you are probably wondering if all men are the same. You have probably heard many times that "all men want the same thing." Some women even co...
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16th August 2008
Is it an overstatement to say that most people recognize that there are changes they need to make in their lives and their relationships? Why then, do so many people put off making those changes, sometimes indefinitely, while maintaining an existence that...
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30th July 2008
Have you ever been frustrated in your relationship because your husband got upset and emotionally shut down? Maybe you were misunderstood or spoke out at a time when you didn't have good control of your own emotions. The more this pattern repeats, the m...
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30th July 2008
Arguing, fighting, and withdrawing all have the effect of creating emotional distance. Sadness and anger maintain the distance. If more conflict occurs before these feelings can be resolved, the relationship progressively gets worse and may end.
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30th July 2008
One of the reasons that wives hesitate to try new things in their relationship is for fear of how their husbands will react. If they do something and their husbands get upset, they conclude they did the wrong thing. If their husbands are pleased they be...
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29th July 2008
You love your spouse, but your relationship is not the way you want it to be. How can you tell your spouse without making things worse? Some people are so afraid of upsetting their spouse that they suffer for years in silence. Ironically, sometimes bot...
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25th July 2008
Do you sometimes feel that you are really low on your partner's priority list? Do you feel put aside in favor of the television, computer, friends, family, your partner's job, or even sleep? When you were dating, you felt so special and now you are not ...
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22nd July 2008
If you are wondering whether you are in love with your partner, then you are not. Being "in love" is something that grabs us like a snake biting us in the butt. However, not feeling in love is not necessarily a sign that something is wrong with your rel...
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22nd July 2008
You know that you love your partner, but don't have those "in love" feelings anymore. You miss it and you want those feelings back. Some people are willing to have an affair to have those feelings--risking everything they have with their partner. Tryin...
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11th July 2008
Many people feel like their relationship with their partner or spouse is stuck in neutral and going nowhere fast. They think to themselves that if only their partner would work a little on the relationship, it could be much better for the both of them. ...
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09th July 2008
Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married? You are not alone. When a relationship starts out, both men and women are interested in making a good impression, getting a positive response, having a good t...
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07th July 2008
Relationship coaches tell us that Jealousy is related to two emotions--fear and anger. Fear of losing what we have and anger at whoever seems to be threatening to take it from us. In a society such as ours where the opportunity for cheating is ever presen...
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