Whenever someone mentions the word text almost everyone thinks of the short message service (SMS) that everyone has become so fond of. However, a text does not only refer to SMS but anything that is also written on a piece of paper. With the coming of technology a lot of people have adopted to sending short messages to their partners. Some of these messages are very flirtatious some of them are ordinary messages like let’s meet at this time or I will be home late. Some people use the phone to flirt with their partners and if you are going to use the SMS to flirt you had better get it right and lure your partner into loving you more and more. Here are a few text flirting tips you should look at.

When sending an SMS, make sure you check to see that you are sending the message to the right person. Never assume that you are sending it to the right person. Check to confirm. This is because if you send it to the wrong person you are going to be stuck explaining yourself to them. Some of the flirting texts are very "interesting" if you send them to the wrong person especially your parents you will not want to indulge in text flirting ever again. It would be worse if you sent it to your boss though. I can almost imagine you walking to the office to find your boss waiting for you demanding an explanation as to why you sent him such a message. Be careful.

Now just because you are not seeing the person eye to eye do not decide to be bold and tell them exactly what you would like to do to them. The best thing to tell someone when you are text flirting is something you would have told them while feeling comfortable telling them. Do not hide behind the phone, somehow you will have to meet them later and they would want an explanation. If not an explanation they would think you are some sick psycho and they will want nothing to do with you. When sending a message do not complicate it by using abbreviations only well know to you. If you must shorten it make sure the person understands what you are shortening or your flirting attempts would have gone for free.

Don’t get excited into replying all the messages at once, if you must reply the message at once wait for at least ten minutes, this way you will make the person wait for you text even more and when it finally comes they will jump to read it sending the message to their brain that they really like you. If not, why do they keep waiting for your text message reply to come through? Finally if text flirting is going well do not forget to call. If you do not call you will not look serious and that is not what you want to portray to the person you are flirting with.

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