Flirting is the most important dating skill that you should pray and hope to have in life. This is because, almost all relationships start off with one person flirting and the other person responding to it. Flirting can also be said to be an art that though we are all supposed to know how to do it, sometimes we mess up when flirting. Flirting is all about making someone know you like them and that if you would like to know them a little better. Sometimes people flirt unconsciously while at other times they know they are doing it and they make their intentions well known to the other person. You can never say you never flirt. Everyone does that once in a while, either to get someone’s attention or just to have fun.

Flirting generally include some kind of body language. It can also include verbal communication from the person. Body language includes touching the person whenever you get the chance. It could be an innocent touch like trying to get something out of the person face or well intended but still flirtatious. Looking at the person with flattery eyes and maybe suggestive eyes, sitting while facing the person or close to the person, smiling to the person, with that perfect smile you have probably been practicing for years. Other sings that show that you are flirting include Playing with your hair, stroking your thighs and lastly holding your belt or trouser line. All these are non verbal body language that are aimed at making the person know that you are interested in them.

The verbal way of flirting is always done by people who are very courageous and are not scared of getting rejected. This verbal flirtation includes talking to the person and passing on some flirtatious remarks or giving someone a compliment. If you are talking to the person, you can also drop your voice a note or two lower so as to make sure you catch the person's attention. Teasing is also a good way of flirting with someone. The men especially like teasing the girls they love and this is good, the girls too should try and tease the men, it is a great way of flirting. Laughing at all the jokes people you like make is also flirting verbally incase you did not know.

Should you decide you want to flirt do so in a descent way. Remember flirting is meant to be fun and enjoyable, if you are both not enjoying it do not do it. When flirting for the first time with the person, don’t make any sexual advances. This is because you are more likely to offend someone than impress them when you flirt and make a sexual advance. You should also watch to see the general reaction of the person before you move anywhere near them to flirt. If they are approachable go right ahead and flirt with them, if they are not, you are better of looking for another person to flirt with, someone who is more friendly and is open to flirting with you.

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