When a man and a woman make eye contact for the first time, it's usually the man who looks away first.
Men are wussies when it comes to doing things that say "I'm a strong, confident person".
Looking away when you make eye contact with a woman is one of those things. Big time.
Instead, if you hold the eye contact until she looks away (and you don't fidget or twitch like you've got some strange bug crawling up your shirt), it will send a strong signal. Oh, and it has a good chance of "sparking" this attraction that we're talking about.
3) Roll Play
Often an opportunity will come up when you're meeting a woman where you'll want to instantly shift into a "roll play".
Maybe she mentions that she's getting a new job. Tell her that you sure hope it pays well, because she's going to have to support both of you...
And then tell her that you hope she has enough energy to cook at night after work, because you need a wife who can bring home the bacon, and fry it up in a pan...
Then tell her that something she just said screwed it all up for you, and that you're probably going to wind up divorcing her a week after you get married... and taking half of her money.
Roll playing is fun, and if it's done right it can really spark this tension that we're talking about. The point is that you have to spark it.
You must lead the way, and you must do something to create that little moment where things transition into "we're playing like adults". Women feel this, and respond to it instantly.
- Turning up the Tension
Now, once you've sparked this tension and engaged her into an interesting banter, it's time to dial up the tension.
That's right, I said, create more tension.
Let's say that you were talking to her about making a lot of money so she can support you, and she answered with, "Well, I can support you, but you're going to have to do all the housework, dishes, and take care of the kids".
Most guys would be thinking to themselves "Cool, she's having fun with me, I'll say something to make her like me now".
So they'd say, "Ok, I can do that" or something equally dumb-assed.
This is the place to turn it up. Say, "Oh no you don't. I'm the man here. I get to lie around all day watching TV.., then go out with my friends when you get home".
Reversing gender stereotypes like this, and teasing is all kinds of fun.
At this point the woman might open her mouth with the "Oh no you didn't just say that" look.
Of course, you should look back at her, raise your eyebrows, and slowly nod your head, as if to imply "Oh yes, you're going to support me".
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Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.
