Most people don't like the idea of "tension". It's uncomfortable.
It usually means confrontation or dealing with someone who's mad at you or who doesn't like you.
Tension is seen as a negative by most people.
And when most men feel any type of tension around a woman, they make a HUGE mistake...
They release the tension.
Because most guys are so caught up in the "tension is bad" way of thinking, they destroy all of the great Sexual Tension that arises in the situations they find themselves in with women. It's a total bummer.
So, the first thing I'm going to ask you to do, for the purposes of understanding this concept, is to put your ideas of what tension is and how it works behind you.
Open your mind to a new way of thinking.
Become "OK" with the idea of creating tension when you're around women that you feel an attraction for... and even amplifying that tension.
And realize that if you can do this, women will love you for it.
Women, and especially attractive women who are approached all the time by loser guys, don't enjoy dating guys who are boring, predictable, and lame.
They love guys who are unpredictable, mysterious, and challenging.
They love guys who keep them guessing what's going to happen next.
And they love guys who can keep the tension building, and not let up.
- How to do it...
Here are a few ideas for "sparking" that initial tension that I'm talking about...
1) Tease.
If you want to instantly change the way a hot, stuck-up woman is behaving, tease her about something. Now, not all beautiful women are stuck up. Duh.
But, teasing works particularly well when a woman is stuck up... lol. Maybe it's her big purse. Or her tall shoes. Or her "runway model" walk.
Whatever. Just tease her.
Say, "Hey, what's with the big purse? You're not one of those women with a live dog named "Precious" in there, along with organic vegan high-protein treats for when she's in the mood to be pampered, are you?" It doesn't matter.
Just say something to tease her.
Oh, and it's usually better if you can do this with a straight face. This creates even more tension.
If you must smile, make sure it's the "I'm only smiling because I know that you can't believe how confident I am that you love me" kind of smile.
Author Bio:
Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.
