Let me ask you a quick question.
It's a question that most men do not know the answer to...
It's also a question that most women do know the answer to...
The question: "What is Sexual Tension?"
Take a minute and "mentally answer" that question. Think it over if you have to.
I'm not kidding. Think about it.
What did you come up with?
To most men, the words "Sexual Tension" are a Mystery.
They just don't make sense.
Or if they do make sense, they make sense in a way that doesn’t make sense. Make sense?
In other words, some guys think that the words Sexual Tension mean "negative anxiety about sex" or something equally unhelpful.
But, if you go ask a group of women what the words mean, you'll get a much different answer.
Women know what Sexual Tension is.
To a woman, Sexual Tension is the feeling that she feels during those times when she is interacting with a man that she feels attraction for... but she doesn't know exactly what's going to happen.
Maybe she can't tell if he's into her, but the conversation is so good that something must be happening...
Maybe he's making her laugh a little bit "too much", and she's unable to control her feelings towards him...
Or maybe it's obvious that he's interested, but he's so in control of himself and the situation that he's not blatantly "making a move"... and she's on the edge of her seat waiting to know what's going to happen.
These are all possible examples of Sexual Tension.
Now, just because one of these situations is happening doesn't mean that Sexual Tension is present.
But these are the types of situations where it is most likely to be present.
With that, let me see if I can take you behind the scenes and give you a different perspective.
Men and women have some BIG differences when it comes to attraction.
Men have their "attraction mechanisms" "triggered" by much different things than women.
For women, things usually begin with a small spark.
Eye contact for a little too long.
A Cocky & Funny comment.
A teasing remark.
It can be anything.
The point is that something sparks the attraction.
Then it grows over time.
It doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it does usually require time.
It might take an evening, or it might take a date or two... but if a man does all the right things he can AMPLIFY one these little sparks of attraction into a powerful emotional feeling for a woman... that is too much for her to resist.
Of course, as we both know, a man can usually feel a sexual attraction to a woman instantly.
I'm sure you've had a woman smile at you and BOY-OY-OY-OY-ING.
SCHWING.
AWWWWW YAYAHHHHH.
What's worse, we totally don't get how things work for women.
So we tend to do all the wrong things.
And when we do all the wrong things, women don't even get the little sparks that can grow into full-blown attraction.
Author Bio:
Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.
